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Dating 101

What is dating nowadays?! Do we see individuals going on dates on a regular basis? What has become the "norm" of dating? I would define dating more as hanging out than anything. We tend to see teens and young adults who just like to hang out with each other all the time. There will often be groups of boys and girls that are with each other and they do fun date like things but the hang out sesh isn't classified as a date. Or we tend to see couples who just like to sit around and watch a movie or something and not plan their evenings together. A hang out is more relaxed and it is a time to get together and then worry about what you are going to do. I feel like the youth of today do like to be social. They like to get together with each other and have a good time, but for some reason we feel a some sort of pressure to plan and come up with dates. I also think we tend to be a little fearful in the idea of being rejected. It is no fun being rejected after building up so much...

A Different Look On Homosexuality

Ok this week we have a pretty hot topic to discuss. But through my research I was able to find an alternate understanding on the topic of homosexuality, I hope you can too. I want to focus a lot on this video  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJhyzqdzpnM  "Understanding Same Sex Attraction." This video looks at homosexuality in a different light. I learned so many new things from watching it. But just a quick run through of what the video is about. PS the video is all about males. The video starts out talking about how there is no evidence that states there are biological evidence in early same-sex attraction. But there are many contributing factors that play a role in changing the sexual identity of individuals. Some of those factors are (these are backed up with research) bullying from the same gender, disconnections from the father, inappropriate touch, etc. A couple men are interviewed, and they explain different situations that have happened to them before, during, and ...

children from different families

I HAVE to tell you all about this site! It's called "Children From Different Families." It is combined data of the latest social sciences to compare the difference in children who were raised in different family environments. It is really interesting to see the different outcomes of these children that were observed. There is an obvious "better family situation" as seen through their data. But I won't spoil it for you, go on and check it out! http://www.familystructurestudies.com

Family Cultures

We all grow up in a variety of different cultures. It depends where we are from, who our families are, our social status, etc. But one consistency throughout the different cultures is the importance of having a family. When we don't put our families first we can see our family relations start to crumble. The family culture and the family togetherness will fade away overtime.  One example of this is with Mexican families. Some Mexican families travel to America to experience the “American dream.” Their number one reason to go to America is so their children can have a better life. Living in America will give their children better opportunities for jobs, they can learn English, etc. In the reading (found below) It contains stories from 10 different Mexican families. They all wanted to travel to America to have that better future for their family. The father would normally go over to America to get a job and lay the foundation for their families. Many families would pay “coyo...

Family Theories

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This week we are going to focus on different theories, in regards to the family. "Social scientists use theories not only to explain but also to guide research. Consequently, theory is an important part of the study of intimate relationships. There is, however, no single theory that encompasses the field of marriage and the family." The four theories we will discuss are conflict theory, symbolic interaction theory, exchange theory, and systems theory. 1) Conflict theory: individuals are always competing for more attention and or influence.              Power = influence. 2) Symbolic interaction theory: non-verbal or verbal behavior that MEANS something to others. 3) Exchange theory: getting out as much as you put in. 4) Systems theory: roles of individuals in their own subsystems. Each of the theories can relate to the family. I am going to just focus on the conflict and symbolic theories. First, conflict theory. This one is probably the most ob...

The Importance of the Family

The topic of family has become a very interesting topic in todays’ world. This past week I have learned a couple things concerning this topic, and I thought I would share. It seems to me that the family is under attack, and we have proof of this through today’s trends. A list of 10 trends that are “trendy” today (in no specific order)… 1.      Pre-marital Sex 2.      Births by unmarried women 3.      Living alone 4.      Cohabitation 5.      Delaying marriage 6.      Fewer extended families are living together 7.      Fewer children to couples 8.      Household size is decreasing 9.      Divorce is high 10.   Employed mother to children who are younger than six So why would this list, affect families? Pre-marital sex can lead to an unwanted pregnancy, which can lead to a broke...

Intro

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Hey everyone! My name is Casslyn Fisher. I am from Idaho Falls, Idaho. And family is everything to me!!! I am the oldest of five children, my brother is currently serving his LDS mission in Argentina. I served my mission in Malaga Spain! Spain is a very special place to me for many reasons. One of them being is I met my husband there! He is from Pocatello Idaho. It is pretty funny that two Idahoans had to go to Spain to meet each other! We got married on November 22, 2016! He is the love of my life. I love doing things outdoors. Four-wheeling, camping, sledding, hiking, etc. If it's in the mountains- count me in! And I also love chocolate... like a lot. Anyways that's enough about me. Thanks for stopping by, you're more than welcome to stick around for my upcoming posts.